Dating tips for boys
26.2.09
1. Dont make it sound like you don’t even want to go out. "So-n-so told me to ask you out" (or something). Dont do that, its stupid, and if you dont seem interested. Also, don’t be aloof. It makes you seem like an ass.
2. Dont tell dumb stories that she has no idea what they are about. Don’t tell her inside jokes between you and your friends. She may force out pity laughs, but that’s all they are.
3. DON’T talk about girls who asked you out/like you. Don’t mention (even if you do) that you have a fan club. Do you really think this will get us interested? Look at our face, do we look like we care or wanna hear about the girls chasing you? No, we dont, shut up.
Seriously though, do guys think this is a good idea? Like we are going to go 'Oh! He has other girls that like him! Its our first date but im sooo jealous! Im going to throw myself at you now.'
4. If someone calls you during the date dont pretend its another girl. It is basically the same as above. Especially if u get alot of calls. Because they will either think your a player (and become uninterested) or think you asked your friends to call you alot during the date so you would seem like a player (and also become uninterested)
5. At least attempt to pay for the date. I know that is so old fashion, but girls think its sweet, even if they beat you to paying for it.
6. Don’t avoid/not talk to the girl for a while after the date. Yeah yeah 3 day rule…it’s a lie. At least say hi if you see each other…god!
OMG! Guys are such ass holes!!!! Ok so I was walking down the hall at CC and my chest bounced a little. Im a girl, who was walking, GET. OVER. IT. I see someone looking but whatever, I figured it was an accident (I let the first time slide since if something on a person is moving anyone would look boy OR girl). But then as I come back down the hall to return to class the same guy from that group runs up behind me and starts singing some VULGAR song about a girls body. He was getting RIGHT next to me, his face right at my ear and he was doing some ...inappropriate dance as he walked behind me. I can hear his friends laughing behind us. I tried to ignore him...and I was doing good till some stupid woman (with good intentions, I do thank her but I think it would have been better to ignore him) looks at him with disgust and yells at him. The turns to me, I tried to force a smile, and asks me why I didnt bitch him out. Now everyone in the hall is looking at me. I tried to smile again and said "Ive gotten use to ignoring them". But in truth, I'm not. I was feeling so good about myself until then. And as soon as I got into my class room my face turned beat red and I started crying. Some classmates saw me but ignored it. Which just made me more embarressed, I hate when people can see me cry. I was wishing I had my oversized hoodie (the one i wore for 4 years to hide my body).
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3 Comments:
ah, situations like this suck. badly.
I do agree that the best thing to do is to confront and intimidate those who mess with me, but I guess it's one of those things--- each person handles stuff differently.
And stay away from the hoodie! It'll only hold you back! Be confident!
i like all the tips, except number 2. i think its cute and dorky when guys tell you inside jokes, haha.
& i know, i hate pereverts. especially where i live, if your walking down a road, the pervs honk & ugh.. so annoying.
it'd be worse if i had boobs, haha.
What I meant by inside jokes is ones he has with his other friends...ones that I would have no way of getting or having a clue what he talks about. Because they usually expect me to laugh as hard as them....and when i dont or they try to explain it the situation turns into an awkward silence
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